Everybody has three types of “language”—verbal, body and how you dress. When it comes to saying “NO” in a dating relationship, your words, your body and your clothes must all be saying the same thing! If you are saying NO, but you clothes suggest otherwise, the guy is hearing “maybe”. The simple fact is a guy is more visually stimulated than a girl and he will be more affected by how you dress. When you are getting ready for your next date remember this; the more you “show” the harder it will be to say NO. Both of you should speak, act and dress in ways that show respect for yourself and others.